I think I agree. Let me try to clarify this. We should all be careful with language. Trying not to use a word one knows...
equalseleventhirds ^^. And I know Autistic Hoya in RL. I don’t think she’d take offense to sir, but she is a she.
equalseleventhirds’ commentary is flawless. Autistic Hoya, I believe, is female as well.
“ABLEIST” DOES NOT MEAN “RUDE”