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3:54pm May 2, 2013

For all my spoonie followers, how do you manage relationships and friendships without overdoing it?

All my friends are disabled. That helps a lot. I didn’t intend it. It just happened.

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  1. erinsterling reblogged this from tgstonebutch
  2. tgstonebutch reblogged this from shwetanarayan
  3. dannithepurplepenguin reblogged this from withasmoothroundstone and added:
    Most of my friends are disabled as well, so they understand. I mostly socialise online now. Twitter is great for me as...
  4. haystaack answered: my husband is supportive of my chronic illness, gastroparesis. he understands and helps me. God will provide you someone understanding. :)
  5. shwetanarayan reblogged this from shiralipkin and added:
    A multi-person household would be awesome but the way I am right now it’d be like… energy for new relationship where is.
  6. shiralipkin reblogged this from shwetanarayan and added:
    This is one of the ways in which being poly works well for me. I was already with my husband when I got really sick; I...
  7. feliscorvus reblogged this from withasmoothroundstone and added:
    Similar here. Disabled friends who get it that certain standard relationship expectations are (a) unrealistic for us,...
  8. withasmoothroundstone reblogged this from dowhatmakesyouhappy-no-regrets and added:
    All my friends are disabled. That helps a lot. I didn’t intend it. It just happened.
  9. myborderlinebattle said: It’s even harder with BPD! But I’m awake now, so I’m going to answer your fan mail!
  10. jennily answered: Spoon theory helped a lot. Also choosing wisely the people with which you spend your time. Understanding & caring people.
  11. laughingatlivedragons answered: No relationships. Friendship: I tell them why I can’t hang out much and they respect it. It took a while for them to understand, tho
  12. heartfilledminds answered: I dont really, actually
  13. dowhatmakesyouhappy-no-regrets posted this