as small as a world and as large as alone

1:00pm June 27, 2013

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Ok…so, I was on okc trying to find someone to date/maybe have something casual with. I’m a strong independent woman who is comfortable with her body. I was texting a guy named Derrick (okc profile and Facebook page) when he asked for a pic of me in my bra. I figured it would be ok since we’d been texting for a bit and he seemed like a really nice trustworthy guy.Well, as soon as I texted him the pic this happened….

Even though I feel extremely violated right now, I refuse to be blackmailed into whatever he wanted me to do. I have been through enough bullshit in my life to last me until I’m 200 years old. I was sexually assaulted in high school and lived with an emotionally and psychologically abusive stepmother while growing up. I have so many self-image issues that I could fill a book the size of the entire Harry Potter series with them. I do not need to deal with shit like this from people. I will not stand for shit like this. So what I ask is that whoever sees this, to please, please, please for the love of humanity, block this guy. Even though his profile says that he’s a “ Im nice kind loving caring funny honest guy. ” he isn’t.

Update: He’s apparently put it up on a porn site as well as Facebook. I refused to be ashamed of this. I will not allow this…I hesitate to call him a man because no man would ever do this to another human being…this…varmint to have that kind of control over me. I refuse to be a victim.

Signal boost.

this man is disgusting, signal boost the hell out of this. 

jesus christ I thought this was some kind of joke conversation or something until I read further and actually realized her desperation in the texts.  what a fucking ridiculous dude.  ”I’M UPLOADIN’ ‘EM.  I’M GONNA DO IT.  GONNA DO IT.  IIIIIIIIII’M GONNA DO IT!  I’M DOIN’ IT! HEY! HEY HEY HEY I’M DOING IT”

Signal boost because this fuckers number is free

Signal boost. This is disgusting.

I kind of just want to text this guy a constant deluge of dicks. 
Just boner after boner forever until he has to change his number

You can get them taken down from FB and the porn site. However, I don’t know if there is anything you can do about him. What a scumbag.

Men who fucking shame women for being confident in their bodies just so they can dominate and humiliate them. Be strong girl, fuck this dude, and hell, see if you can report him to the police.

Some guy did this to me the other day. He took a picture of me taking a nap in the shop and said he was putting it on Instagram and going to turn me into a meme after I specifically told him to delete the picture and not post it.

I didn’t even know the guy’s NAME.

So this kind of shit is disgusting in the worst way.

And this could happen no matter what the circumstances are. I dated a guy ten years ago (we were teens) and we were in a long-term committed relationship.  We were intimate, the relationship ended, he was a bit bent about it but let it go.  TEN YEARS LATER he shares my pictures with people. Nude pictures of my underaged self.

I thought because I shared them in the context of a relationship where we both cared about and respected each other, I’d be fine.

I thought because it was so long ago, they’d be gone/deleted by now.

But no, this guy held onto these pics for that long and shared them with my friends and family (yes, family).

So yeah, not really trusting anyone anymore ever.

(My post starts here, all above are quotes.)

Not nude pics but I know a guy who had his pic taken with his arm around various women and girls. He had tons and tons of them. Once when I was in a mental institution he visited and got my mom to take such a picture of me. I was both drugged and passive. (As shows up clearly in some of the pictures taken immediately prior to the one he uses most often.)

Now he uses that pic of me as “proof" that he was my boyfriend in college. Tries to claim it was taken at college and that he took it, even though my mom has the other pics she took of us, still.

He doesn’t of course publish the pics he took off me with my actual boyfriend in college. That would show him for what he is… someone who took advantage of my vulnerability towards the end of an abusive relationship, after college was over. And he doesn’t show the pics where I haven’t managed to get my face to smile yet, because he tries to use my smiling as proof I wasn’t autistic at the time, because autistic people can’t smile? Idk WTF.

Anyway he has gotten the picture spread far and wide as supposed proof that he has ties to me and information about me that he doesn’t actually have. I’m certain he’s done this to other people too. I’ve seen tons of pics of him with that same possessive expression in the exact same pose with his arm around a girl or woman. Because that’s what he does, so he can prove he had a relationship that in many cases either didn’t exist or only lasted a day or a week.
He actually accused my mom of perjury when she tried to get him to stop using the pics she’d taken. I’m not kidding. Even though she has other pics taken just before, same camera angle, same folds in our clothing. I guess that messes up his story. The pic he used was taken on his camera but by her. She was the only person in the room besides us.

Anyway when he took it I thought he was my friend and I thought the picture was innocent. But like most of my “friends" at the time, he was a bully.

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