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11:25am July 28, 2013

FFS

josiahd:

Can we PLEASE stop pretending that therapy is safe and all therapists who hurt people are just abberrations that have no bearing on anything systemic?

Therapy can be really good for people it’s good for but…

It’s not safe, and it’s actually a really messed up culture, and the danger is especially large for marginalized people especially if they have a cognitive disabilities or are otherwise in danger of being institutionalized.

Also I was in therapy of one kind it another for most of the ages of like… 7-19.

It only did bad things. Even the more benign ones simply were not helpful.

Meeting other people who had been there did more for me in a tiny amount of time than all those years of therapy ever did.

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    That said, it took me a long time to find the right people but I would be dead without the help of my therapists at my...
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    OMG YES!!Two of my stalkers, one of whom is a therapist for real now, try to do that exact thing. The “I’m only...
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    Thank you for the clarfication, I guess as a transman trying to find away to express my frustration and dealing with...
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    Yes this. I wish it wasn’t true, and I was lucky that I had a couple of amazing therapists when I was in therapy. But I...
  12. witchyautisticweirdo said: I don’t go to therapy anymore because I felt I couldn’t be open about the thoughts making me anxious which made me even MORE anxious. Therapy was my personal equivalent of shooting myself in the foot.
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