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12:51pm July 28, 2013

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josiahd:

Can we PLEASE stop pretending that therapy is safe and all therapists who hurt people are just abberrations that have no bearing on anything systemic?

Therapy can be really good for people it’s good for…

OMG YES!!

Two of my stalkers, one of whom is a therapist for real now, try to do that exact thing.

The “I’m only interested in slandering her because I’m a concerned friend who was her entire support system for so long, she had all these mental issues, the poor thing, can’t help herself…” on the one hand. And then the total vicious crap on the other.

When I know. Because I know what they’re like, and I know what they’ve done to others. That they are laughing about all the bullshit they can make up about me. And it is made up. Not misremembered. They say things that could only possibly be lies. And they enjoy the hell out of it when they can get anyone gullible enough, to believe them.

But they play the concerned friend of the person with mental issues, because people sympathize with that, and because it’s okay to treat someone like shit if they have mental issues.

One of them, in perfect therapist language, actually SAID…

“Nothing she says about her life is actually real. The only value it has is in revealing important aspects of her pathology. But there’s no point listening to it other than that.”

Except it’s as real as anyone’s memories of their own life is real. More real than most, because I forget things, but what I remember,
I remember more clearly than most.

Which actually may be part of their problem with me. I remember truly horrible things they have done to people. And if they were me, they’d reveal that stuff just to be mean. So they fear I’d do that. And they do their best to discredit me ahead of time.

Plus someone else I know who knows them, says that the one who is a therapist may resent what I have to say about the system she’s chosen to work in. All I can say is she’s totally mastered the art of degrading mental patients, so she’ll likely go far.

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    That said, it took me a long time to find the right people but I would be dead without the help of my therapists at my...
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    OMG YES!!Two of my stalkers, one of whom is a therapist for real now, try to do that exact thing. The “I’m only...
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    Thank you for the clarfication, I guess as a transman trying to find away to express my frustration and dealing with...
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    Yes this. I wish it wasn’t true, and I was lucky that I had a couple of amazing therapists when I was in therapy. But I...
  12. witchyautisticweirdo said: I don’t go to therapy anymore because I felt I couldn’t be open about the thoughts making me anxious which made me even MORE anxious. Therapy was my personal equivalent of shooting myself in the foot.
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