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11:29pm November 24, 2013

➸ http://littlemissmutant.tumblr.com/post/68031206977/some-people-use-anti-capitalism-to-mean-im

littlemissmutant:

some people use anti-capitalism to mean “I’m entitled to your space, your time, your labor, and everything you own.” and some people use anti-abuse to mean “I have good consent. I would never hurt you. How dare you say I’m hurting you? You know how devoted I am to fighting rape culture.” And some…

OMG yes my stalker completely used the values of the community we were in to play other people against me (and towards her) in a way that’s not even funny, really scary actually.  She used extremely common stereotypes and twisted and bent them back on themselves in such a skillful way I’ve never seen anything like it.  (For instance, twisted things – real and unreal – around, to make herself look ultra-oppressed, and me look ultra-privileged, in a way that wasn’t true to either of our actual experiences of the world.  She managed to simultaneously use various community values, and various stereotypes she knew everyone still held whatever they actually SAID they thought.. and twist and twist and ugh it was awful.  I could see her doing it but couldn’t explain it well enough to stop her.  And she did a lot of upside-down twisty-things too.  Like she used my language problems against me, both my trouble understanding and trouble coming up with certain kinds of language.  And at the EXACT SAME DAMN TIME she managed to make me look like an eloquent person with no language problems, who was using her ‘language problems’ against her.  That was kind of her specialty, accusing me of doing things to her while doing them to me herself.  It got to where I could predict her next accusation based on what she’d just done to me.  And I know none of this connects exactly with the main post, but it stems out of the same thing I don’t have words for.)

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