9:39pm
June 19, 2014
Not sure if almost complete lack of interest in men and their faces is because I’m on the ace spectrum or because continual experience of misogyny from men has given me an aversion
Maybe it’s both
Could very well be some of both but it’s totally okay not to have an interest in something regardless.
(ace spectrum here as well. I am generally not sexually attracted to anyone. My current partner is the one exception to this. He is a cis dude but very gender-atypical in some ways. And I like the way he looks, a lot. Other than him I do sometimes find people aesthetically appealing but in that case it tends more to be women and nonbinary-looking people of any gender or no gender.)
Thank you. I know it’s okay, but it doesn’t hurt to be reminded.
I think my problem with it is that I would like to be able to. I’m basically straight, and I’d like to be able to feel things about people. I’ve been attracted to men before.
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fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton reblogged this from madeofpatterns and added:That’s an interesting thought. I don’t think it’s true for me, but it’s interesting.
madeofpatterns reblogged this from withasmoothroundstone and added:It could a also be depression. Sexual attraction takes spoons and for some people depression drains attraction spoons.
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