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6:41pm June 23, 2014
Anonymous asked: 'the types of people who should be shunned are people who are deliberately abusive' Thank you for shitting on those of us who were raped by people who 'didn't know' what rape was. Thank you for saying that our rapists should not be shunned. Because we certainly do not hear that enough. Fuck you. Fuck you and fuck every teary-eyed abuser and rapist who says that because they didn't know it was wrong, they shouldn't suffer the consequences. Euthanize abusers, FUCKING ALL OF THEM.

You do know that “the types of people who should be shunned are people who were deliberately abusive…” does not actually eliminate the possibility that there are other types of abusers who deserve to be shunned in certain communities?  I was just describing one easy-to-describe example.  Not all abuse is rape, also.

And you know what you’re doing right now is abusive, right?  You know that venting your rage in a really nasty-ass way at someone who’s survived sexual assault by multiple people, some of whom knew what they were doing and some of whom didn’t, as well as just about every other kind of abuse, is verbal abuse, right?  You know that’s what you’re doing?

And you think all abusers should die.  I hope you don’t think you should die.  Because you don’t deserve to die, even though you’re being disrespectful and verbally abusive as hell to someone who’s done absolutely nothing to you at all, and who is, myself, a survivor of some pretty horrific abuse – sexual, physical, psychological, institutional, and emotional.  You’re aiming your rage at the wrong person.  Stop it.  Get away from me, stop talking to me, just stop it.  I don’t deserve any of the hate you’re trying to pour all over me.  I understand why the hate is there, but I’m not the right target.  Get away from me.  And stay away.

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  1. natalunasans said: good answer though
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