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9:39pm June 24, 2014

lichgem:

madeofpatterns:

lichgem:

i mean obviously you shouldn’t be made to feel like you have to cover them. But I always did too and if that’s what makes you feel safer then you shouldn’t be criticized for that.

What I object to was that they were pressuring me to go out in public with uncovered scars- and ignoring the fact that it wasn’t safe. Like it’s not just a matter of how I feel about my scars. I don’t think they’re ugly or shameful. It’s that I don’t want to out myself as someone who used to cut/tried to kill herself to every stranger who happens to look at my skin. And people WILL say shit, and act nasty. And my family wanted to pretend this wasn’t a problem.

Not wanting to be bullied doesn’t mean I lack self-confidence.

Right.

Notes:
  1. squidsqueen said: right exactly, that’s why I always covered mine when they were obvious. That’s perfectly reasonable and you shouldn’t be pressured to do otherwise.
  2. withasmoothroundstone reblogged this from fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton
  3. fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton reblogged this from madeofpatterns and added:
    Right.
  4. madeofpatterns reblogged this from fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton and added:
    Not wanting to be bullied doesn’t mean I lack self-confidence.