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7:44am July 2, 2014

Being genderless means…

…that when I dress like my father (or any other male relative), I’m not trying to look masculine, nor do I feel masculine, or ‘butch’, or anything else like that.  I’m just trying to look like someone I love, and gender doesn’t come into it, at all.  Not even on an unconscious sort of level.  I literally don’t differentiate by gender when choosing who I want to dress like, it doesn’t occur to me.

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  1. clatterbane reblogged this from feliscorvus and added:
    I have been wearing a couple of my mom’s shirts a lot lately, and very similar here. Even if it has a floral print, yes....
  2. bearhugsbeerhugs said: This reminds me of how I’ve always felt that if I had a kid I would want to be called “Papa,” not because I identify as masculine, but b/c I was always closest to my grandfather whom I called Papa & I associate that word w/ love the most.
  3. feliscorvus reblogged this from withasmoothroundstone and added:
    YES. I have some of my dad’s old shirts that I have been wearing randomly since high school. And now he and I live in...
  4. lechatelierite said: Irrelevant aside: I’m cis and binary, but I still sometimes dress like a person of the opposite gender if I like them… not because I’m trans, but because gender is not really a big deal to me. It’s not a major part of my life or identity.
  5. withasmoothroundstone posted this