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3:31am July 10, 2014
Anonymous asked: I do not mean to be rude or even bring up the topic as I do truly adore you, but wouldn't sex be a bit complicated on your end?

petitetimidgay:

I don’t mean offense to you either if you “adore” me, but come on, are you serious? I don’t plan on fucking a gymnast. Yeah ok I might not be able to do like 20 sex positions or whatever, but sex with a disabled person is like sex with anyone else - it requires a lot of communication. You learn by trial and error. You find out what’s comfortable for both of you.

And yeah, my limbs are tense and I can’t really move my hips or legs, but orgasms actually reduce spasticity. You loosen up and it’s easier to move, so as long as I’m aroused I’ll be fine.

CP or no CP, I still have a fully functional vagina. I still masturbate. I still have orgasms. And if my partner has the nerve to complain about my physical limitations in bed, I’ll kick them out before they can finish their sentence.

I’m so irritated because people who think the disabled “can’t have real sex” are a big part of the reason we’re unfairly denied the opportunity to have fulfilling relationships. How dare anyone make such invasive assumptions about our sexuality.

Let a disabled girl fuck you until you can’t stand and then ask her how “complicated” it was for her…if you can catch your breath, that is.

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    I don’t have CP I have Brittle bones and everyone seems to assume id break like all my bones in my body if I had sex…....
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