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3:06pm August 2, 2014
alliecat-person replied to your post:someone is accusing you of transmisogyny because of some thing you replied to in May…
This, again?

Yes, this, again.

It’s called thread necromancy.  They didn’t get the desired amount of outrage towards me last time they dug this thread up from the grave, so they’re trying again.  Doubtless they will keep trying until a sufficient amount of people who lack any context for the events in question, are pissed off at me.  It happens.  I’ve been through worse.

Speaking of death, my father is dying.  I have more important things to do.  Like call him.  I think I will call him right now.  And thoroughly ignore the thread in question, because that is what it deserves.  I have not looked at it and will not look at it.  

IMPORTANT:

I truly appreciate your good intentions for bringing things like this to my attention.  However I would appreciate people not bringing things like this to my attention, because while your intentions are good, you’re only feeding into what people want, which is to suck my time and attention and emotions away from me.  This goes for pointing out the content of other bullying directed at me, as well.  I try not to pay any attention to it at all, because they want my attention more than they want anything else in the world.  They want my time, my attention, my emotions.  And I won’t give it to them, if it’s the last thing I do.  

Living well is the best revenge, and I will be happy and I will love myself for who I am and I will help other people love themselves for who they are.  I will do my best to be the person I was meant to be, and to help other people be who they are meant to be, whether they are meant to be similar to me or very different from me.  That’s what’s important in life: love.  Not petty bullshit online battles.  And that’s where I will continue to focus my energy, except during moments of weakness that I tend to regret later.

I love you.  All of you.  Even the ones who hate me and think I’m an asshole.  I can’t help it, I’m a Hufflepuff.  Also it’s my life’s goal to live within love as much as I possibly can, because that is the only way I can be of any help to the rest of the world.

I’m going to go call my father now.  That’s what I need to be doing.  

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  1. chavisory said: <3
  2. fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton said: *places hugs in a basket for you*
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