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3:48am September 6, 2014

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I’ve had that happen before.  Sometimes it’s good, sometimes it’s bad.  If it ever gets to the point where it feels like an overwhelming emptiness that will never be filled, that’s bad.  :-/

That’s what sets it apart from the usual. It’s not emptiness, it just feels raw and present and vulnerable. It’s hard to explain.

That could be good then.  Sometimes raw and present and vulnerable means you’re … I always call it ‘thawing’, like parts of me that were under ice for years have thawed out.  Which is painful but ultimately rewarding.  I hope that’s what it is, that’s kind of the best-case scenario for a situation like that.